Thursday, February 18, 2010

Relationships

Writing this one for a friend, she knows who she is :)

Relationships!
My definition (For 15-21): Best Friends who want to see each other a lot with benefits that they do not share with anyone else.
My definition (for 22+): Someone you seriously consider spending your life with, so you become intimate mentally and physically to see whether you are compatible or not.

Honestly, if you can say you've been truly in love at the age of 16... then you're either lying, or you've found someone really special, really yearly in your life.

Relationships for people 13-17 are mostly peer pressured, and are a phase in adolescent life. At such a tender age, with no real grasp of what LIFE is, let alone what LOVE is, it is impossible to state that one is truly in love.

My take on love? Love is when you've just seen your girlfriend or boyfriend, you've said good-bye and you already miss them. Love is when you can talk for hours non-stop about random things, and nothing is a taboo subject. Love is even just staring into your lovers eyes for a while without saying a single word... I guarantee that people in the teenage age bracket will say "IVE FELT ALL THOSE THINGS!" and to that i say... Bullshat.

Relationships for people over 21 are very different, because they are for different reasons. When someone from that age bracket gets in a relationship there is many things they need to consider i.e when do we move in together, how often do i see him/her, do i want to marry this person etc... and for this reason, i believe relationships for people in that age bracket NEED to be more meaningful, because they are getting to the age of wanting to be married, or wanting to have a child.

To condensify, im not bagging anyone out, if you want to be in a relationship at a young age, go for it! All im saying is that don't be all like "zomg i lub u 4eva babbee" because it ain't gon' happen yo' :D

'Stay classy twenty-ten'

benny-boy

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